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I'm back.

Woo haven't been on here in like forever! Did you miss me? (echo echo echo)Shout out to me for saving my password on my laptop! Yeah buddy!

So much has happened and not happened in my life since the last time i was on here!
I dont even know where to start.

So i won't. at least not tonight. i'm sleepy.

i'll be back later.

Thinking about....

nothing.

but i'm thinking.

What are you thinking about?

BLUEPRINT 3

I give to you the album cover for..............BLUEPRINT 3!

Ya'll know I ride for Jay! Bout time boo!

I LOVE IT!

Friend in my head

My newest friend in my head. In fact we're BFFs! We laugh and joke, we shop together. She gives me her free swag. We even sing together!!! in my head of course!

Hey Chrissy!

P.S. Go buy her album Epiphany! In stores now!

yeah baby, I like it RAW!

I don't. Pregnancy & STDs don't appeal to me.

EmandLo.com asked the question I have always wanted to know: Is sex with a condom really that bad?

The short answer is YES.

For details on why. Click Here

what kind of foolishness?

What the hell is that? NO really? What is it?
Thanks to www.stuffflypeoplelike.com for the pic of Lady Gaga looking like a damn fool

Emotions make u cry some time.

Births. Deaths. Marriages. Divorces. New jobs. New job losses. Gain a friend. Lose a Friend

Different emotions for every situation. sometimes situations come at you so fast that your emotions get intermixed.

Shit life makes you cry sometimes.

PASS THE KLEENEX

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I'm still me!

Over the last few days, some of my friends have been complaining about my "somber", "unordinary" "boring ass" mood.

Usually, I'm total opposite of those words. One of my friends said this and I quote "Ugh! Why the hell u talking like that? Where's my goofy girl? I can't take this sour attitude! Call me when the real Erica stand up!" and click! The dial tone was buzzing.

WTF? Don't u hate it when folks don't let you feel?

I can't stand when folx try to cut your emotions short. Sometime you just need to be in the space you're in to feel it, and come to terms with it. If not, you're just gonna go back to your original emotion sooner or later.

yeah, I know I have a sour ass attitude. Right now my life is sour. Shit happens. My sour attitude is for the fact, that I'm LOST! I can't see the forest for the trees. I see every little thing that is wrong but i can't see my way out of it.

wouldn't that make u sour?

I know they just want me to be happy, so their trying to pull me out of my funk. but I'm resistant. I need to fell this shit and get it outta my system. Then maybe the trees won't be so intimidating.

Cyber vs. Real

I'm a social media nut. No need to the name 'em you know what i'm talking about.

Through these social sites I've made some friends. some really valuable friends. Friends that I would not have made if it were not for these sites. Doesn't matter to me how I refer to them by their twitter name like, @bigsant, @shafunnyxl or @kpett. They are still my friends.

One of my "real life" friends pointed this out to me the other day. She said " I haven't talked to you in a week! What' up with that? I called and u didn't even return my calls! but I saw you on facebook posting back and forth with some dude from Miami!"

She was mad. Hurt even. At first I wanted to be like "Ugh! get over it! join in! DO SOMETHING!"
Instead I said "My bad, homey."

I talked to her for about 30 mins, til one of my cyber friends text me "Call me. I need to talk to you. quick"

I knew what the text was about so i told my "real life" homegirl, I'd call her back, cause my mom just beeped in. So after I put out the fire with my cyber friend, I took a minute to think things through.

Do I give my online friends more attention?
Am I really neglecting my friends or are they neglecting me?
Should I try to integrate my friends? Cyber meet real. Real meet Cyber?

Tell me, what how would you handle this type of situation? Do your real life friends get jealous of your online friends or vice versa?

He called me a BITCH!

And I liked it! I think

At the height of passion, on all fours, my mouth slightly open, moaning with delight. I looked at him behind me , sweating dripping, face all screwed. His hands gripping my waist.

The boy was putting in work! I was so intrigued by the faces he was making, my rhythm got thrown off. He looked up at me straight in my eyes, pulled my hair and said

"Turn around Bitch, I got this back here!

I lost my mind. I was shocked, stunned, confused and still in rocking my ass back and forth. I didn't know what to do. What's the protocol? Why didn't I jump up and in my Queen Latifah impersonation say

"Who you calling a Bitch? U-N-I-T-Y"

I liked it! Didn't I?

Just to be sure that I this wasn't a fluke. "Say it again!" I said to him as i looked back a 2nd time. He grinned. "You like that huh?" Silence.

Then he stopped. wiped the sweat from his face. got on top of me, pressing my body deep into my Serta mattress. I could feel his heart beating through my back. The weight of his body, quickened my breaths. He pulled a hand full of my hair tight, twisted my head to 1 side.

he put his lips, to my ear. and he whispered

"you've got mail"

Damn it! I went to sleep watching porn on the internet...AGAIN!

LOL

What will folks say about you when you die?

The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People is written by Stephen Covey, is a really inspiring read. I'm on the the 3rd habit so far and I must say that it has really introduced some new concepts to me. I've been inspired to change some of my daily habits by reading this book.

It poses a few questions that require a lot of introspection. One of the questions so far that stuck out in my mind were "what do you want people to say about you at your funeral? What type of legacy do you want to leave?" The author wants you to imagine standing at your own funeral looking down on yourself and out to the people that are mourning your death. What are some of the things you would want your Mother, sibling, significant other, coworker etc. to say about you?

I had never really given thought about that, b/c i knew i wouldn't be there to hear it so it didn't really make a difference to me. But this time, I thought deeply about it.

Looking back on my 25 years, I'm a little uneasy about the legacy I would leave behind. There have been some things that I have done and said to people that I'm not proud of and I definitely haven't put sufficient effort into achieving my goals. The people around me know that too. I'd imagine my mom would say something like " Erica was the best daughter i could have asked for. She had her own mind, did her own thing and always tried to keep the peace. I'm so sad to send her home to glory she had so much more she wanted to do but never did." I DON'T WANT THAT.

I want my mom to say "Erica was the best daughter I could have asked for. she had her own min, did her own thing and always tried to keep the peace. She lived a full life at 25, she pursued her dreams and inspired me to do the same."

What would you want people to say about you when you die?

History repeats itself

Here I go....AGAIN!

Job searching in the Atlanta area is not an easy task. Takes a lot of time and a lot of energy. Because everything is digital now, it's easy and hard to find a job. Easy because you can sit in the comfort of your own home (or in my case the library) and look for jobs. No more going place to place. Hard because there's no more, friendly interaction! I've been on the hiring side before and I hire ppl that I think would mesh well with me and the company I was working for. If the company is only taking applications through their website it's kind of hard to show them what a really good person you are. Hard because, no one puts up bright, neon signs that say "NOW HIRING" they all just say, "visit our website for job opening"

It's hard and grueling but if I want to continue to stay here, I've got to find a job and quick! Wish me luck!!!

Thought for the day.

Life is hard.

How to:

I'm always thinking of things to do. The latest thing I thought about was starting a handbag line. I found some videos at expertvillage.com that tell you how. There are 15 video in this series. Below is the first video. click here for the rest

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8 Bible reasons why a wife must submit to her husband regardless of culture.

Below are the first four, click the link for the other half. Whadyathink?

Creation order:

Man was created first, woman second. "For it was Adam who was first created, and then Eve. " 1 Timothy 2:13

Creation origin:

Man and all creation was created by God directly out of dust, whereas woman was created through the man’s rib. "Then the Lord God formed man of dust from the ground, and breathed into his nostrils the breath of life; and man became a living being. " Genesis 2:7 Woman is the only creature not made from dust. Woman derives her origin from Man. "The Lord God fashioned into a woman the rib which He had taken from the man, and brought her to the man. " Genesis 2:22

Man named woman:

Adam named the animals and was to rule over them. "Out of the ground the Lord God formed every beast of the field and every bird of the sky, and brought them to the man to see what he would call them; and whatever the man called a living creature, that was its name. " Genesis 2:19 "rule over the fish of the sea and over the birds of the sky and over every living thing that moves on the earth." Genesis 1:28 When Eve was brought to Adam, he named her, showing he was to rule over woman as well. "The man said, "This is now bone of my bones, And flesh of my flesh; She shall be called Woman, Because she was taken out of Man."" Genesis 2:23

Delegation principle:

God commanded directly to Adam alone. The prohibition to not eat of the tree of knowledge of good and evil, was made directly by God to Adam. Adam, in turn relayed what God said to Eve. Eve had not yet been created when God told Adam about the forbidden tree. Eve never actually heard God say this direct, but had to trust Adam’s word on the matter. "The Lord God commanded the man, saying, "From any tree of the garden you may eat freely; but from the tree of the knowledge of good and evil you shall not eat, for in the day that you eat from it you will surely die." Then the Lord God said, "It is not good for the man to be alone; I will make him a helper suitable for him."" (Genesis 2:16-18)

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New Movie "Precious"

I watched this movie trailer and could not contain my tears! Powerful shit. Guaranteed to be a great movie. I'll be sure to take my Kleenex with me. I'm a sap!

Co-Produced by Tyler Perry and Oprah Winfrey

What do you think?

In a word....COONIN!
props to stuffflypeoplelike.com where i snatched the picture.

Spencer Pratt is the future of Hip Hop

His words not mine! GTFOH! Read below to see what this fool had to say! Props to Bossip.com (where I found the interview) and Complex.com (where Bossip found it) lol

Complex: Who’s rapping career would you use as a blueprint for yourself?

Spencer Pratt: I think I’m the future of hip-hop. You know, I feel bad for saying that. That’s unfortunate, but that’s a fact. You can’t compare my model of hip-hop with what I’m about to come out with versus anything in the game. You know I’ll take the Diddy route. I’m not a lyrical MC, I’m just like Diddy. Look what it did for him? He is still balling.

And he had the balls to say that he is the "white Jay-z?!?!?! What kinda crack he smoking. The fuggery that comes outta his mouth

Complex: You also said, “I’m like the white Jay-Z.” Would you consider Heidi the white Beyoncé?

Spencer Pratt: A little bit more than the white Beyoncé. Beyoncé had to be built by a group like Destiny’s Child, but Heidi shines solo. I’ll actually give you an exclusive: I could guarantee you Speidi’s [Spencer and Heidi's] “Bonnie & Clyde” version is going to stunt on Jay and B’s version.

Click here to read the entire inteview on complex.com